Life as a story

My time in Zambia has been world-changing, but is sadly coming to its end. People have been asking if I miss the UK at all, but I never get homesick when I’m away. I enjoy the opportunity to explore new places and live a different life for a while – I love my life as it is, but travelling is an easy way of forcing you to experience new things. I think there are a lot of lessons that you can take from travel and apply back home, the main one being to make every day count. If I was only in London for a week or two, and then I went somewhere else, I definitely wouldn’t spend all day checking emails and reading Wikipedia, I’d be out exploring the world. So I want to do more of that.

My Zambian experience has felt like a self-contained story. The peripheral characters in our lives these two weeks have slowly become more meaningful. We noticed a tall guy who sat near us at breakfast at one morning, and he turned out to be Ignacio, the guy with dual citizenship from the cocktail party. There’s a blonde woman staying here who we keep seeing around, and last night she was having dinner with Ignacio, so we wondered if they had come here together or if he was trying to score. We also ate dinner at a rival hotel one night, and saw the blonde woman there too, concluding that she was a spy.

The staff are great here, too – you’ve already heard about Adrian, but there’s also a waiter called Kelvin who started working here just over two weeks ago, so for as long as he’s been at the Southern Sun he’s seen us twice a day for meals. He said he’d got used to having us around and would be sad to see us go. Another waitress, Tracy, came over ‘just to say hi’ because she recognised us this morning during breakfast.

I read a book while I was out here called A Million Miles In A Thousand Years by Don Miller; it’s a real perspective-changer and my favourite book now. It puts forth the idea that a good story is just life with the meaningless scenes removed, and that if you can understand the principles of what makes a good story, there is something to be said for removing the meaningless scenes from your own life to make everything you do more meaningful, more memorable and generally enabling you to live a great tale. Being someone who already documents his life on video, this really struck with me. I really like the more documented videos I’ve made while I’ve been in Zambia and I’d like to continue that style, upoading a video maybe every Monday to talk about what I’ve been up to, and leaving time later in the week to do a Twilight reading or a song or whatever else I feel like. Anyway, once you finish Mockingjay, I’d definitely recommend you read A Million Miles In A Thousand Years – here’s an Amazon link.

So my Zambian story is over, and the Sons Of Admirals story is waiting for me back home. We’re taking this re-release really seriously and aiming Baby at press and radio, so I’m really excited to see what we can do :)

To the next story!

x

  • Anon

    You should write more.

  • c0nzo

    'I'd like to continue in that style, upoading a video maybe every Monday'

    uploading has an L in it n00b. trollolololololol.
    ahem. sorry.
    super excited about here comes my baby re-release. I'd love for it to get number 1, and you to get really famous and i'd be like 'yeah i knew them before they were famous. charlie responded to an email i sent him once'
    and then everyone will love me. don't let me down!

  • Zoe

    I love the videos hearing about what you're doing. It's probabally what attarcted me to your blog as well. You have a realy knack for writing and I think you should persure that more than you do now. I know on youtube you mentioned you had been writing but that was like two or three years ago know.

    Anyways I love your music, and everything you do really. You're a fanastic person, and I can't wait for anything else that you put out. <3

  • http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/starrideremily Emily

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  • Anouk

    http://s3.amazonaws.com/data.tumblr.com/tumblr_…

    I had to take a screenshot. I went to the website because I wanted to take on sponsoring a child. But I can't. I live in Belgium :(
    So I'm checking out other programs now.

    On another note: You really should write more. it's always nice to read and never boring – which, for a blog is actually the most important. AND you're interresting. That usually does the trick.

  • Anouk

    My link failed. nvm.

  • Rebecca

    I'm excited for the “upoading” a video on Monday. :D
    I'm also intending to read Million Miles in a Thousand Years.
    Love your blogs as well as your vlogs. <3

  • Danielle

    This post came at a wonderful time. Thank you. And these comments are right… you should write more. :)

  • Christina

    After I finish Mockingjay, I’ll definitely read A Million Miles In A Thousand Years. Oh you know us so well.
    DFTBA x
    p.s I can't believe you are sponsoring a girl named Esther. Very cool.

  • http://twitter.com/BBC_Fangirl Laura Blakemore

    “Anyway, once you finish Mockingjay,”
    I love how you know us so well. I've already finished it (I read it in less than a day, I couldn't put it down), so I'll definitely check out your book recommendation. :D

  • Lydia

    World Vision is a Christian organization, did you know that? :) My high school collectively supports a boy named Enock and he's about 7 or 8 years old. It's really a great thing. By the way, I've never mentioned how great I think it is that you've done this. I saw in your last video that people are commenting and sponsoring children through World Vision, which is also really great. God bless you, Alex. This is good stuff.

    And about Sons of Admirals, I'm REALLY sorry to keep bugging you about this, but every time I ask this question, I get ignored….. either that or I've missed the answer…… but is there any more Sons of Admirals music coming out in the future? I'd assume so, but you know what happens when you assume. ;) So far it's just one song, though, and I have to admit that I'm really looking forward to new music.

  • http://alexdaymusic.com Alex

    YOU ROCK :D :D

  • http://alexdaymusic.com Alex

    There's definitely more music coming, we have our next single ready to be recorded, but we're trying to push Baby a little more in the real world first, see if we can crack UK radio :)

  • http://twitter.com/MZB1993 Mike

    I never get homesick either, I'm ashamed to admit it when people ask me. It's not that I don't like being at home, just that I look forward to going away for the adventure and I'm not going to get there and think 'I can't wait to get back to my normal boring life'

  • Jenni

    a very touching blog Alex, I'm glad you wrote this. I love these kind of thing that you read and it makes you stop and think. I intend to check out that book, sounds interesting.

    Looking forward to these new documenting videos!
    x

  • http://twitter.com/katrinalindley Katrina Lindley

    I'd love it if you did some kind of travel vlog, going to different places and telling us all about your adventures. There are so many places in the world that people know nothing about without realising that they know nothing about it. You'd definitely be more fun to watch than one of the arsey TV presenters who go on about a 'magnificent aura' or whatever else, before heading back to their 5 star hotel.

  • Pbjplatypus

    Question: are the press and radio re-release going to be in the USA, too, or only in the UK? I'd love to hear some Sons of Admirals over here!

  • OliviaW

    I finished MJ about 5 minutes ago. As Kristina said in her blog post, I am also “numb.”

  • kayythen

    <3

  • Sleep_Filled

    I really want to just read a book written by you,because I LOVE reading what you write on here :)
    DFTBA
    x

  • Sarah

    I never thought i got homesick either, that is, until I went on a school exchange and had mental breakdowns every five minutes
    Do you reckon SOA can do it?
    It would be great to hear someone from youtube on the radio tha wasn't the BIEBERMONSTER
    xxxx

  • Lydia

    Good. :) Sons of Admirals is far too brilliant to just have one song. XD Thanks.

  • Cassie

    I think the Monday thing is a fantastic idea. I liked your videos before there was Twilight or much music because I like your personality. I think it would quite good for you and your channel. =]

  • http://twitter.com/Stanage Ty Stanage

    The book you mentioned brings up an interesting point about making our lives “more meaningful.”

    I just feel like there are people in very remote/poor places like you've explored where they don't have the resources to make their lives “meaningful” in our sense. Our sense of meaningful would be to give alms to the poor, create works of art/music/prose/something in order to inspire others, and live as selflessly as we possibly can while contributing to society as a beneficial citizen.

    Other people, who are struggling to keep themselves alive, let alone their neighbors, have a different definition of “meaningful,” I think. No one is going to attack those less fortunate than you and I for leading lives that are selfish, because we know that this is the only way they can survive and provide sustenance for themselves and those closely to them.

    Of course, I realize that the book is aimed to those of us in the Western world who know we should do more meaningful things (because we have the ability to do them), and yet we choose to waste away precious moments of time doing things like read Wikipedia and checking emails–yes, this is a problem, yet these little things, when used correctly, should be used in creating more meaningful projects/doing more memorable things.

    For example, you and Charlie both create music and YouTube videos. You both provide others with inspirational songs, vlogs, and other things. Yet, you both *don't stop there*, instead, you DO give to charity, you DO provide us with meaningful insights into places like Zambia, or people in need. Reading Wikipedia and emails are just byproducts of you living–of you creating these gifts for your audience to watch, appreciate, and in turn create meaningful, memorable gifts for others to enjoy. You shouldn't feel guilt or resent for these small things, for they are small compared to the BIG things you do that people will remember you by: music, service, humor.

  • arica.

    “To the next story!” I like that. :)

  • http://twitter.com/theblazingsnow Odi Shonga

    PLEASE continue that style. You're an inspirational guy, so it'd be great for a lot of people to watch as well as a good documentation of your life :)

  • http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/starrideremily Emily

    haha YAY :D

  • -

    Well, c0nzo. He seems to have better grammar than you in the long run. He does this thing called 'capitalizing'. You use it at the beginning of sentences and when addressing proper nouns.

  • http://twitter.com/gindawn Ginger

    I've been watching and reading ever since you started reading Twilight–your wit and your sense of humor makes you a pleasure to be an audience to and a fan of. And you continue to amaze me with your depth, your compassion, and how you see the world. It's wonderful, don't ever stop. :)

  • Cyberdudette

    Alex .. I know where you live … I am slowly tracking you down ! I must be in one of your videos ! I DEMAND IT >.< please?

  • http://www.tumblr.com/tumblelog/starrideremily Emily

    Myers-Briggs personality test tweet
    INFP idealistic, loyal to your values and to people who are important to you. You want an external life that is congruent with your values. curious, quick to see possibilities, and can be a catalyst for implementing ideas. You seek to understand people and to help them fulfill their potential. You are adaptable, flexible, and accepting unless a value is threatened.

    (I don't have twitter.) do you care about this? I'm thinking not
    test- http://similarminds.com/jung.html

  • alexandra

    You're asking Alex for an email from Charlie after correcting a typo?

  • http://twitter.com/alissadale Alissa Dale

    I'd recommend Don Miller's Blue Like Jazz as well. Thanks for taking us along for the ride on this adventure of yours!

  • Juliette

    You're such an inspiration (:
    And on a completely different note, I feel like you would be really amazing at writing a book.

  • c0nzo

    ok, first of all, i was correcting spelling, and secondly i wasn't being serious. i was making fun of people who nitpick spelling and grammar mistakes. i guess you can't really tell sarcasm on the internet. soz for confusion lol

  • c0nzo

    no, charlie DID respond to an email i sent him once. in the pasrt tense of now. and again, the typo correction was a joke. i thought i had made that obvious (though evidently i hadn't)
    so, yeah. everyone just igonre my stupid post then.

  • http://twitter.com/HueyHuey88 Yih Huey

    I think this is a very interesting journey after watching your video . We get to know how Zambian looked like and how the people there . So happy to see people around the world and their lifestyle and so on.
    Yeah , go out to explore the world and help other nations in the world are actually a very meaningful things to do . So , keep it up =)

  • http://twitter.com/HueyHuey88 Yih Huey

    I think this is a very interesting journey after watching your video . We get to know how Zambian looked like and how the people there . So happy to see people around the world and their lifestyle and so on.
    Yeah , go out to explore the world and help other nations in the world are actually a very meaningful things to do . So , keep it up =)

  • I am definitely a woman

    What happened to the doctor is dying?
    Also, why do you only ever reply to females?

  • Xanthe

    Okay so HYPOTHETICALLY Alex Day, if a girl wanted a date with you how would she go about it?

  • http://goodbyestory.wordpress.com/ Sara

    I would love to read that book. I think that is an interesting perspective on stories. I do think, however, that there is something to be said for the fact that people make movies and write books about the lives that are different, about the moment when things change and your life is suddenly unique.

    Thinking about it now though, I'm not sure that makes anything change. I love English classes at university because I love talking about books, but I like plots and characters more than I like any of the other metaphorical stuff. Make your life a story that has something to say.

    I'm gonna go try that now :-)

  • Jess

    I have to agree with everyone else, you really need to write more! Your blogs are so nice to read. I just bought a few new books, so I'm planning on reading those first, but then I am definitely checking out A Million Miles In A Thousand Years.

    I wish I could travel more but I really don't have the money. I've never been outside the US or farther than a couple thousand miles away. I don't really get homesick when I'm away either – the only things I miss are my dogs :D

  • dreamforever91

    Hi alex :)

    I never got a chance to buy “Baby”, so are you planning on releasing as like, a physical cd? If that happened, it would make my day :)

  • Fiona

    This made me so happy and excited! I love Don Miller and I'm excited that you got to experience his amazing writing skills whilst at Zambia. He is love. You should read Blue Like Jazz, for definite :) That's the first Don Miller book I read, and I love to reread it, but sometimes I just open it to a random page and start reading too! :D

  • Kirby

    Hey Alex. I highly recommend all of Donald Miller's books. Just thought I'd let you know. :)

  • http://alexdaymusic.com Alex

    Ha, physical CD singles really don't sell AT ALL. Digital sales count for 92% of all chart sales, and iTunes obviously has the highest share of that. Baby might come out as part of a Sons Of Admirals album if we ever do that, and that would be on CD, but for now, no, the single will just be rereleased on iTunes with some extra tracks.

  • dreamforever91

    Oh, okay then, I'll have to get some more money on my iTunes account, but thanks for the info anyway.

    A Sons of Admirals album would be cool, I would definatley go out and buy it :)

  • Stuartfretwell

    Errr . . .'life -changing' certainly – but 'world-changing '? Really? :/

  • Guest

    She would not be a creepy stalker on the internet, and probably bump into him in the most ordinary of circumstances, and their exchanging numbers wouldn't be a desperate attempt to stagger through life clinging to the life force of another human being, but simply an extension of what was no doubt a fascinating conversation. She should also probably not be 13.

  • Mortadelle

    That's a bit harsh what you just said… was that really necessary? Or do you two know each other and are trying to see who'll react? (cause see, it worked…)

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